tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3838888705604303690.post6072613573634298854..comments2009-06-27T16:32:35.172-07:00Square Root of Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17591494233434643348noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3838888705604303690.post-15336424628189469892009-06-27T16:32:35.172-07:002009-06-27T16:32:35.172-07:00b. Definitely (also). I agree with Holly, somethings that bother the heck out of me today will be nothing later! Why fight and say things I may regret if I can just back stove it. If I still feel upset or like it needs to be hashed out I'll grab the pot then and dish when the cause of the disagreement is still fresh, just not boiling.S'meehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12101359854973455791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3838888705604303690.post-64927836343980740242009-06-27T10:48:09.998-07:002009-06-27T10:48:09.998-07:00Definitely B. (Things tend to look much better after a little sleep.)Hollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06806741936713425887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3838888705604303690.post-13680160125898151232009-06-27T06:32:41.099-07:002009-06-27T06:32:41.099-07:00I guess I sit in the middle ground on this one. Terry and I never went to sleep angry at each other, not in ove 33 years of marriage. However, we also did not go to sleep every night with every issue resolved. Some issues just can't be resolved in one evening, but anger can be resolved in one evening if you're both commited to it and to your Lord. What you cannot do as human beings, the Lord can do with you if you allow Him to. There were a lot of times I WANTED to stay angry, and I'm sure there were for Terry as well. However, we voluntarily gave up our anger because we knew how important that act of submission was to a healthly marriage and to a deep respect for what our Lord taught us in His Word. Not being angry, however, does not mean an issue is resolved. Resolution sometimes takes days or weeks, but you don't have to nurture the anger just because you haven't come to agreement.Dianehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12608123533919730726noreply@blogger.com